Retirement Life
3 June 2026
Pets, ageing and the challenge of moving
Pets can be powerful companions in later life. They’ve been linked to lower blood pressure, reduced loneliness and better overall wellbeing. But what happens when life changes and you need to downsize, rent, or move into a retirement village or aged care?
Why pets matter as we age
Research shows that companion animals can help slow cognitive decline, boost mental wellbeing and reduce feelings of isolation. There are physical benefits too. People with hypertension who own pets have a lower risk of fatal cardiac events, while dog owners tend to be more active. More walking often means better health - and more opportunities for social connection.
The trade-offs
But pet ownership can have its challenges in later life and older owners need to consider things like:
- The risk of trips or falls
- The cost of food and vet care on a fixed income
- The practicalities of care as mobility changes
- The emotional toll when a beloved pet becomes unwell or dies
It’s not about giving up pets, but about planning ahead.
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Renting with pets just got easier
For older renters, recent law changes are making things easier. In 2024, the Government introduced new rules to make it easier for pet owners to find pet-friendly rentals.
Landlords can now charge a “pet bond” of up to two weeks’ rent and must have reasonable grounds to refuse a pet if a tenant seeks approval. And the impact for renters has been immediate.
Trade Me Property spokesperson Casey Wylde says February saw a record 39% of rental listings marked “pets negotiable” - up from just 13% before the law change.
Moving into a retirement village or care
The Retirement Village Association says most villages are pet friendly, particularly for residents in independent living units. Major operators such as Arvida, Bupa, Metlifecare, Oceania, Ryman and Summerset - all promote pet-friendly policies. In some cases, this goes for apartments too.
That said, approval is typically required and assessed case by case. The goal is to ensure the pet is a good fit for the environment - for both the owner and their neighbours.
Plan early, stay together
For many older New Zealanders, pets aren’t just companions - they’re important family members.
If your housing needs are likely to change, it pays to understand your options early. With the right planning, you may not have to choose between your home and your pet and can keep the comfort, routine and joy they bring for years to come.
Written by:
Sonia Speedy
Sonia Speedy has been a journalist for over 20 years, working in newspapers, magazines and radio. She also runs an online platform for parents at familytimes.co.nz. She lives on the Kāpiti Coast with her young family and loves writing stories that help make people's lives easier.
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